Los Angeles Jewish Home's Blog
Friday, November 7, 2014
Welcome, Rabbi Karen Bender
The Los Angeles Jewish Home is proud to welcome Rabbi Karen Bender as the Jack H. Skirball Director of Spiritual Life. In this position, Rabbi Bender will help us determine and maintain what makes the Jewish Home Jewish.
Rabbi
Bender comes to the Home with twenty years of rabbinical experience. Following
her graduation in 1988 from UC Berkeley with a degree in Political Science, she
went directly into rabbinical school at Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of
Religion (HUC-JIR). For the first year, she studied in Israel, as is traditional
for this program. Internships led her to Arizona, Idaho (where she was the only
rabbi in the state), and Manhattan. After graduation, she served as rabbi at
Temple Beth-El of Great Neck, Long Island for seven years and then for thirteen
years at Temple Judea in Tarzana.
During rabbinical school, Rabbi Bender
took some time to study in an Orthodox environment in Jerusalem. "It gave me an
opportunity to find some balance … and to live in Israel again," she explains.
Israel has a special place in Rabbi Bender's heart: her parents were born there
and met and married while serving in the Army. During her childhood, the family
visited there regularly.
In addition to her traditional
rabbinical studies and responsibilities, Rabbi Bender is a published author of
sermons, poems, academic articles and original prayers. In a new edition of the
Reform movement's Rabbi's manual, five of her poems will be included. Over the
years, she has been deeply committed to social justice causes, including
overcoming prejudice and taking responsibility for the poor and homeless. Rabbi
Bender has also been a dedicated leader in bridging the gap between faiths,
ethnicities and cultures.
The San Fernando Valley Jewish community —
including the Jewish Home — has played an important role in Rabbi Bender's life.
Her family are longtime members of Valley Beth Shalom, where her mother taught
for fifty years. As a child, she participated in a program through Na'amat and
would visit the Jewish Home, playing her guitar for residents. As an adult, she
brought her children to the Home to sing for residents. And now, she is part of
the Jewish Home family … it must be beshert!
Rabbi Bender has always
been drawn to seniors. "My grandparents were in Israel, so I didn't get to be
with them often," she explains. "My great-grandparents perished in the
Holocaust, so there was an absence of elders in my life. I often "adopted" my
friends' grandparents to fill the void.
Now I have a windfall of wise and
wonderful seniors!"
"Here at the Home, I want to continue the wonderful
legacy that Rabbi Anthony Elman has created," says Rabbi Bender. "I hope to
establish meaningful relationships with our residents and to offer them learning
opportunities in addition to spiritual care." She is also interested in the
well-being of employees at the Home. "I am very impressed with the morale here,"
she says.
"Everyone seems to feel deeply recognized for playing a part in
something important. I want to help sustain that and to understand what that
means to individuals on their own spiritual path and how their experience here
touches their lives."
Rabbi Bender has many hobbies. They include a
variety of outdoor activities, such as wake boarding, river rafting, biking, and
horseback riding, often with her three children, ages 16, 14 and 10.
"Family is very important to me.
My parents and two brothers live in the
area, so we all often spend time together."
She enjoys theatre and music.
She has played seven instruments over the years and is currently taking
saxophone lessons.
Rabbi Bender is engaged to Ali Sagadencky, a rabbinical student.
On behalf of the residents and staff of the Los Angeles Jewish
Home, we welcome Rabbi Bender to our family.